Teaching 3 year olds to clean:

1. Maintain a large toy/stuff/book storage room with many shelves and cubbies for organizing an excess of things.

2. Reduce possessions in their room and main areas until airy, light, and everything has a place to be easily and obviously put away.

3. Incorporate cleaning into the family culture everytime you leave a room. Never leave a room in a dirty state. Do it with them. Be the example.

4. When a child refuses to clean, pick those items up and move to storage in a matter of fact way. When a child wants to rotate or obtain new toys, do so only when they are managing their responsibility of cleaning. With blessings come responsibility.

5. Never be angry, just show them this is the way it is. Sympathize if they become upset. Tell them you are rooting for them: they can do it! Sell the value of existing in a clean space. Explain how God wants us to be good stewards of the things He has entrusted to us. Love + example = discipline.

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Ordered every size (5 pairs) of Boatilus Cloggy, a healthy barefoot Crocs-like sandal, for my kids for the Texas heat. 🌞🌞🌞

Only place I could find them was from WideToes(.)com, a Finnish barefoot warehouse. Had to use ShipGerman(.)com, which lets me recieve EU packages and forwards them to the states.

Talk about legwork. Zero drop. Wide toe box. Absence of big arch "support".

https://www.widetoes.com/en/product/boatilus-cloggy-summer-sandals-kids/45468

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Implement the "whatever doesn't get cleaned up gets thrown away" policy with your kids, today.

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"my tummy hurts" 👧🧒

• apples, apple sauce, apple butter
• colostrum in yogurt
• bone broth
• fruit gelatin gummies
• extra butter a breakfast
• tart cherry juice
• ginger shot w/ lemon
• more sun, less devices
• check nnEMFs
• check mold

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Pretty difficult to dejewify the kids minds without homeschooling.

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For my babies, everything; For my toddlers, the Law.

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My general advice to parents, whether looking at #Homeschooling or classical/Christian/private schooling is:

You want your kid to master the basics AT HOME; do not outsource it. Reading, writing, arithmetic. Everything else will be easy if you get this right. A 4 year old that reads at a 12 year old level is going to smoke their peers in the greater picture. Don't overthink it. Delay other curricula until this foundation is laid.

1. No screen time at all until at least 18 months. Build a culture of reading every day. Build a baby library and toddler library and read so much your kid memorizes the words.

2. At 18 months, add a single wholesome show to watch TOGETHER periodically, either once a day for 10 mins or every few days. We like Little Bear and at 3 years old that's still the only show we've used. This will increase their word interest a lot. We use an Android/GrapheneOS device with the Twilight app to eliminate blue light and disable camera+mic, etc.

3. From 18 months introduce to ABC board and the ABC phonics song. They won't get it at first but try and play with it and listen together multiple times a week so they are familiar.

4. From 24 months, add their second screen time: Meet the Phonics. This will cause quite a dopamine dump, so tie it to the board and song every morning to capitalize on the dopamine and build a home learning practice. Add numbers, counting, and letter writing (chalk) before 3 years old.

5. By 36 months, provide the Mentava app in the same morning block. This gamifies the phonics process better than anything I've seen; it is worth the sats. Continue with writing practices. Aim to have them reading their own books before they turn 4.

6. Increase writing and arithmetic. Ignore other curricula until this feels solid. Then add a second learning time block to fold in additional curricula. We're looking at Classical Christian curricula, but you can use Grok and friends to explore what's out there.

Cheers.

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Getting Started #Homeschooling.

From ballpark 2 years old:

1. ABC puzzle board.
2. ABC song.
3. Meet the Phonics video.

Your child will want to watch the video after they've seen it. They'll ask every morning to watch it. Tell them after the puzzle board. As they choose letters, ask them "B as in...?" to get them to aseociate the letters to common words, like Boy and Button.

Then sing the song with them and finally watch Meet the Phonics together. The video uses lower case letters, so as each letter comes up, have them find the big letter to associate it to the little letter. They'll learn to find and hold the letter every time it comes up.

Do this first thing in the morning. Once they've got the routine down you'll be able to get them started at the table while doing breakfast etc. Interact with them from across the room. This will show them they can do learning work by themselves.

You now have morning school block instituted that you can iterate on, adding numbers, counting, chalk writing for letters, and early phonics.

Now obtain a dedicated school tablet in order for them to use mentava.com, or continue with manual learning.

Either way, getting this practice in place is the hardest part. Dad should get it going if Mom has never been exposed to self learning, then she can take over with time.

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It's important to instill a deep sense of self worth, belonging, and protection in your daughters.

Tell them - "I won't let anyone hurt you, not even you. That's how important you are."

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Dispelling Common Feminisms.

"You are clearly afraid of strong women."

Under modern conditions, the goal of such "strong women" is to spend their best years in a high of attention by living on social media and in dating apps, competing with other women online by broadcasting a false life full of adventures + decadence, seeking sponsorship to work for men in their career in order to maintain "freedom" while frowning at women who make a life with their husbands and families in the home, while they enjoy sex, debasing themselves, with dozens of uncommitting losers.

These same women think that the party can go on forever, not realizing that they are (A) progressively spending / giving away their value, (B) missing their chance at good men, and (C) teaching themselves that men are users and exploiters via their own bad behavior, therefor making themselves incompatible with their own best option: establishing a stable family where they are cherished and belong for all of their life.

Being a "strong woman" means recognizing the carnage of this way of life and opting out as early as possible.

Being a "strong woman" means comprehending that the good men, who are not users and exploiters, who would make high value husbands and fathers, are looking for women who haven't allowed dozens of strange men to ramsack their bodies and don't have a burden of idealogy, debt, and career ambitions that would make it impossible to wholly engage in the full time endeavour of making a family.

"Independent men attract independent women."

Good men, who have developed the character and strength necessary to father a household actually attract the opposite/complimentary attributes in women: feminine, clean, modest, family-centric. This is called polarity and it is an immutable property of our sexual selection.

Birth control has warped womens minds to not only imitate men but to seek out men like they were their girlfriends. This is where such bizarrisms, like girls bragging to suitors about their summer trip planned for Australia and they're looking for an "adventure buddy", comes from.

Girls who have not taken synthetic estrogen from a young age have plenty of progesterone and low estrogen. They have a natural, innate sense of selecting for a (positive but polar) masculine man as opposed to selecting for a (negative but similar) feminine man. Unfortunately many women who green light suitors while on birth control later stop it's use to have children and find that they no longer are attracted to their husband, leaving and destroying the family.

The confusion that "like attracts like" in sexual selection between men and women can only be sustained when society as a whole gives their young girls hormone warping drugs.

Sadly, many men who sleep with women on birth control become increasingly feminized themself, as the estrogen drugs are strong and long lasting, trading between bodily fluids and even poisoining the water supply. It's no coincidence that the trans craze is taking place decades after the mass adoption of synthetic estrogens for birth control.

In a way, recent generations have been more similar than different, hormonally.

"Men want to find their equal in a woman."

A man wants a women who is equally strong, smart, and capable, but with complimentary, not identical/competing attributes and ideas about gender roles that would interfere with a lifelong committment of family life, and not burdened with baggage (debt, trauma, feminism, career) that would act liabilities, not assets.

"There is no greater reflection of how we feel about ourselves than those we choose to be intimate with."

This is completely accurate.

A woman who allows her body to be patroned by hundreds of men feels badly about herself, and woman who makes herself a prize to her lifelong husband and family feels very good.

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The reason so many men between the boomers and zoomers, of which I am apart, went abroad to pluck maidens from Asia (pictured: Rena Tanaka of Japan) and other countries, is:

1. Outside of the US/West, it is still possible to find families who were father-led with stay at home moms who were not humiliated and shamed by cultural engineering. Japan, LatAm, etc, etc. Women there still have an ounce of modesty, not wanting to shame their house. They still have a cherished view of family and continue to be family-centric after their upbringing. They are completely secure and content to have their own family.

2. Parents in the US have completely failed to protect their daughters from the ails of modern western culture. To put it nicely, girls growing up in the US today expect lots of pleasure/fun, attention, career success, independence, and nothing to do with what their mothers and grandmothers did. They are ashamed of them. The mothers have been vanished and the girls have been turned into high bandwidth whores. Modesty is like a cage to these girls. Men are like evil patriarchs and they must defend themselves by becoming strong and immune to the shackles of family life.

3. The swing towards populism, where young men revolt from the past to restablish bonds with their heritage, values, and faith, has only just begun. If you pay attention, you'll notice that a growing cohort of girls are adapting and pivoting from the previous momentum. Men are leaning into the small worlds of timeless value, and rejecting girls who have made themselves of the world.

It's early, but I think my kids will have a better time with family formation, so long as I create an environment that lends itself to such pursuits and insulates them from the other, failed of theydel.

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Do not raise you daughter to be fully formed from the world and encumbered with lifelong commitments to higher education, debt, career, travel, etc...

Do not raise you daughter to immediately "spend" her value by entering into the attention economy, broadcasting herself for followers and flings.

Raise your daughter to love the home, your mother, to become proficient, strong, and smart in all those things a wife and mother are needed to do.

Then she will attract a good man.

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Weak fathers sponsor adventurism in their daughters. Go conquer the world. Be of the world. Become so committed to other things: debt, career, exes, travel, etc, that you are unable to give yourself to your husband and future family.

The underlying message these weak dads are sending is that their place is not in the home. The home is lowly. Their mom and grandma were oppressed. They are being set free.

Girls then grow up to look for "adventure buddies" instead the leader of their own family.

Young men are overwhelmingly conservative. They're over it. They want a wife and a mother to their children, they don't want to sponsor a woman's continued "empowerment", but become the knights of their own household.

This mismatch is of serious concern: where women conditioned by weak men are attempting to be courted by strong men breaking away from the previous generation's cowardice of and floaty feminine character.

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Your primary job as a husband and father is to systematize an environment of safety, the home, as it relates to modern dangers (food/water safety, clothing/cleaning/product safey, wounds/ailments/infections, defense of physical threats, emergency preparedness, secular culture insulation, political instability, inflation/censorship of savings, unmasking/AI harvesting, feminist/trans craze, convential medicine malpractice, boomer grandparent delusions, digital identity, social credit) and then to pursue meaning allowing for adventure (exciting pursuits where risk and excitement is enhanced compared with the home environment).

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Height is mostly downstream of lifestyle and nutrition. Don't let your sons end up being short. 👦

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Since WWII, the West has been culturally underwitten by the idea that parents have no right to "control" their children.

That children belong to... who? Government? Wealthy pedophiles?

That's gonna be a big No from me. Children belong to their parents, who raise them up in the world.

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Not sending your daughters into the world where they'll be pressured to (A) mime public shame of their ethnicity and forefathers, (B) advertise their genitals with whorewear, (C) get ran through by dozens of red pill bros, and (D) become wealthy and free via OnlyFans, and (E) become "boss bitch" is called Love, not Control.

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Women working in the 2000s was, to society, a sign of affluency.

Now, with the younger generation waking up, it will return to a sign of a low class, low value family.

Affluency retains privilege and duty, it doesn't destroy it.

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My daughters are too valuable for a career.

Our family will insist on worthy suitors of serious intent only.

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Two Paths for Young Women.

1. Get wed young and immediately graduate to family life. Become prized, protected, and cherished.

2. Enjoy 'freedom' of self indulgence, explore 'identity ', get ran through, mind and body used and exploited.

Direct your daughters to no 1.

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You wanna chop off your boy's foreskin and inject aluminum adjuvant into his vital organs?

Sounds extremely dumb and cattle like.

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"I don't want my daughter to have a strong jaw."

No, you don't want your daughter to be ugly, and having an underdeveloped facial structure goes along way towards accomplishing that.

A strong jaw is not "masculine", but is more a feature of overall health and vitality. A fully developed face makes women more feminine and men more masculine.

It's attractive for the same reason a good buttery tan is = a signal of robust and bountiful health.

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Don't raise a mouth breather with a weak jaw. Get 'em on #orthotropics young.

We give our kids lots of steak, raw carrots, but also train bite/airway with the Myo Munchee.

Good for kids and parents. 😀

🛒- https://myomunchee.com/

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If this doesn't scare you into taking responsibility and leading your wife and daughters, nothing will.

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Resolved my toddler's #eczema. 👶

Took a couple years.⏳

Will provide a writeup. ✍️

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Rule with dominion, not domination. ❤️‍🔥

Be a good king, not a tyrant. 👑

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"I will leave my kids enough so that they can do something, but not enough so that they can do nothing."

-Warren Buffet

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A lot of what we think of as strength is actually just hand and forearm conditioning. Take your family to the climbing gym. 🧗‍♀️

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At the playground and the kids look like shit, just like their parents: sickly, inflammed, puffy, bloated, moody. 🛝

This isn't from oranges and honey, people. It's from ultra processed NPC food, blue light, nonstop devices, and laziness. 🤡

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Being a dad means giving your toddler wasabi when they ask. 😂

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Vitamin A is so crucial for eye health that the name retinol, named after the retina, has become mainstay. 🫣

Give your children beef liver every week. We like making primal ground (beef, collagen, heart, liver) patties drizzled with honey. 🍯

"Honey beef!" my kids say when they wake up. 🐄

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